9:Redeem – 10 Commandments (Sermon Notes)
Recently on NPR they featured a man who started a social experiment, online he solicited people to make confessions about things they hadn’t told anyone. You can imagine some were fairly dark, some were humorous, but one stood out to me. The one that stood out was, “People are so happy with me because they say I’ve stopped lying, they don’t know that I’ve just gotten better at it.” At first you laugh and then you stop to realize how dark that statement is.
We all function at some level of trust, we all trust people to some degree, and we assume that they tell the truth. This commandment here in Exodus 20:16 sets a fairly low standard in that it says in legal proceedings we must tell the truth. I’m sure we could all keep that commandment but leave it to Jesus to take the simple and make it complicated. He took the command of not committing perjury and made it a prohibition against lying.
There should be no degrees of honesty, all our speech should be truth. (Matthew 5:33-35)
- We should not need an oath to validate our speech. (Matthew 5:37)
- Matthew 23:16-22 – shows how convoluted the “swearing system” of Jesus’ day was
- We should not need to make oaths because the stakes are too high. (Matthew 5:33)
- Ecclesiastes 5:5 – Don’t make an oath rather than not fulfill it.
- Hebrews 6:16 – Mechanics of oaths brings a witness in, do you want to bring God in to witness your falsehood?
- We can not swear by what we do not own. (Matthew 5:34-36) Jesus here is quoting from Isaiah 66:1 – Informs us that we have no ownership of anything to make an oath.
- James 5:12 – James reminds us to not make oaths, but simply let your yes be yes and your no be no. In other words, don’t swear and live so you don’t have to, be people of integrity.
- How do we lie? or The Art of Lying…
- It sounds like a simple question, but really it’s complex. If we know the truth but don’t say it is that a lie? Psalm 55:21, states that flattery is lying. Proverbs 6:12-13, tells us that we can lie without even using words.
- One of the most frequent places we lie is when asked for a reference, after thinking about a lazy employee one employer wrote, “You will be lucky if you can get him to work for you.”
- We need to not think of all the ways we can not lie, and discern how we can best tell the truth.
How to have truthful, redemptive speech…
- Become familiar with the truth. (Philippians 4:8)
- Many times people that have been lying there whole life have a hard time coming to tell the truth because in many ways they don’t know it.
- Have you ever lied to yourself, to the point where you came to believe it? If so ask the creator to speak truth to your inmost being. (Psalm 51:6)
- Practice living the truth. (Eph 4:15, 25)
- Once we love the truth, and then become familiar with it, the only logical next step is to live by it. When you decide to do this, it makes Christianity a great adventure – especially if you’ve not been totally honest in the past. For a primer in this watch Liar, Liar with Jim Carey.
- If you start telling the truth then you’ll find you want to start living the truth. You’ll start doing the things that you can tell the truth about. You won’t want to do things you’d be ashamed to say, you won’t want to go places you shouldn’t, because you know you’ll tell the truth!
- Speak the right words at the right moment. (Proverbs 25:11-12)
- Sometimes we have the right word, but we say it at the wrong time.
- We need to be wise in selecting the teachable moments of those around us.
Truth is so valued, it is so liberating, this is why Jesus says, “The truth will set you free – the truth is redeeming!” If you’ve ever lived in a lie you know how true that is, how lies hold you in bondage, but truth sets you free in your relationships. Even with God, are you honest to God this morning?

